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Language development: 0 - three years of age



Disclaimer: This fact sheet is for educational use only. Please consult your doctor or other health professional to make sure this information is right for your child.

Key points to remember

  • communication begins at birth and the sounds that babies make have a purpose and are meaningful
  • children learn by listening and watching - so talk to your child, sing songs and rhymes, look at books together

You might find it useful to also look at the following related fact sheets on this website:


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Introduction

Right from birth, babies learn language and communication skills and are able to react to different sounds. They will develop skills to understand language long before they start speaking. Each baby will develop these skills at a different rate, although there is a general pattern of early language development. 
 

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Things babies do before they learn to talk

Babies interact with their world by:

  • crying and squealing
  • calming to familiar voices or becoming quiet when familiar voices are heard
  • exploring objects by banging them together, throwing, or mouthing them
  • copying other people's actions; for example, waving bye-bye
  • blowing raspberries, to show excitement and pleasure
  • looking at toys / simple pictures / people with others; this sharing of attention is an important skill
  • using their faces to communicate; for example, smiling, frowning
  • listening to sounds and voices and trying to respond or interact
  • learning to use their voice to communicate
  • taking turns in making sounds
  • cooing or using 'coos and goos'
  • babbling; for example, 'bub-bub-bub' or 'da-da-da'
This is a very important period for communication and language development. These skills need to be encouraged.
 

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Developing first words

Gradually, children begin to develop more meaningful communication by:

  • using simple words such as 'mama' and 'dada' for their parents
  • expressing 'yes' or 'no' by nodding or shaking their head
  • making up words for particular objects; for example, 'dodo' for all animals
  • starting to recognise and learn names of things they see a lot; for example, bear, car, ball
  • using simple words to ask for something; for example, 'bobo' for bottle
  • still babbling but with some real words mixed in
  • using other words such as 'more' , 'all gone' , 'up'
  • starting to recognise and name simple body parts; for example, eye, ear, nose
  • following simple commands such as 'come here', 'sit down', 'get book', 'clap hands', 'wave bye'

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By the age of two years

  • children have between 50 and 200 words that they use regularly
  • they are starting to put two and three words together to make little sentences; for example, 'more juice', 'daddy go car', 'me up'
  • children can answer simple questions such as 'what's that?', 'where is doggy?'
  • children can follow simple instructions with two key words, such as 'put the apple in the bin', 'give the book to daddy', 'get shoes and ball'
  • they can turn pages in board books and point to or name things they recognise

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By the age of three years

  • children are using longer sentences of up to five words; for example, 'I want to go park mummy'
  • they can use words like 'and' to link up to sentences, 'I go shops and get icecream'
  • they understand and talk about colours, simple shapes, sizes and where things go; for example, they understand the difference between 'big' and 'little' and the difference between 'in', 'on', and 'under'
  • they are able to follow instructions with three key words; for example, 'point to your nose, eyes and tummy', or 'give the big ball to daddy' - when they are paying attention
  • they can have a very simple conversation
  • they like to look at books with an adult and are able to point to pictures when asked; they also like to talk about the pictures
  • they are constantly learning new words

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Using language socially

A child's ability to use language socially is an important skill which, just like other parts of language, develops gradually over time.
 
 

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What you can do to help your children learn to listen and talk

  • copy the playful sounds babies make as this will encourage two-way communication
  • play simple games such as 'peek-a-boo' and tickle games
  • talk, using short and simple sentences
  • talk about and point out objects that can be seen and heard; for example, ball, car, plane
  • sing songs and rhymes together
  • expand on simple words; for example, the child says 'car'; you say 'push car'
  • praise attempts to talk; for example, 'good talking!'
  • smile and show that you are listening
  • look at books together and talk about the pictures
  • talk about what is happening when you are with children
  • talk about what children are doing
  • make sure children are looking at you, and you at them, when you talk
  • take children for walks, go to the park and other fun places, and talk about these places to help them learn new words
  • encourage children to watch television shows that will help them learn. Limit their television watching so you have time during the day to do a variety of things with them

You may also find Encouraging language development on this website useful, including the sections:


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Learning through play

You can help your child learn and develop by offering lots of opportunities to play and explore in an environment that is stimulating, safe and secure. Talk as you play to help your child understand and use language. Let your child hear the words that match what they are looking at and thinking about.
 

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When should I seek help?

It is important to remember that:
  • every child develops at a different rate
  • there is a wide range of what is considered to be normal in a child's language development
Look at how your child's language compares to typical development, using:
You can also check another fact sheet on this website:

If you are concerned about your child's language development, you should discuss your concerns with the following:

  • your child's teacher (if attending an early childhood centre or school)
  • your GP (general practitioner), who should be able to advise you whether your child's language development is appropriate for their age, or whether there is a language development issue or another developmental concern
  • your Plunket nurse or other Well Child provider (see Where to go for more information below and the Well Child / Tamariki Ora services for under fives fact sheet on this website)
Problems with speech and language development can sometimes be a sign of hearing difficulties. Glue ear can be one of the causes of hearing difficulties. See the following fact sheets on this website:
If your child is still having significant difficulties being understood by familiar adults:
  • by their third birthday, or
  • earlier if you are concerned,
or if you think your child does not understand language as well as other children of their age, you should request a referral for a speech assessment by a speech-language therapist.
 
A speech-language therapist will:
  • firstly talk with you about your concerns, your child's developmental history, any health issues, any significant events including birth history
  • assess your child's communication development, in particular the areas that you are concerned about
  • if required, develop a programme with you which will include strategies that you can use daily with your child, as much as possible within daily routines
  • monitor and review progress and refer to other services (such as audiology), if required
See Where to go for more information or help about language development below, for information about finding a speech-language therapist.
 

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Where to go for more information or help

On this website (related fact sheets)
An introductory fact sheet What's involved in learning to talk?
Much more than words booklet
 
Originally written for early childhood professionals, this booklet may be of interest to parents and caregivers who want more detailed information. The booklet was published by the Ministry of Education, Special Education in 2000. 
 
Plunket
If you are concerned about your child's language or speech development, you could discuss your concerns with your Plunket nurse (or other Well Child provider - see the Well Child / Tamariki Ora services for under fives fact sheet on this website). For your local Plunket office or Plunket Karitane Family Centre, check the Plunket website or look under Plunket in your phone book. Plunket also offers a specialist early childhood health telephone help service. It is available to all families, whanau and caregivers 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Call PlunketLine free on 0800 933 922.
Postal address: PO Box 5474, Wellington 6145
National office phone: 64 4 471 0177
National office fax: 64 4 471 0190
 
Speech Language Therapists
Speech language therapists are employed in the Ministry of Education, special schools, hospitals, and in private practice. To find a speech language therapist, you can:
Team-Up: Helping our kids learn (Ministry of Education)
The Team-Up website provides information, ideas and materials to help parents support their children and get more involved in their learning and education. There are lots of ideas about play for babies, toddlers and young children and information about how children learn through play.
 

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Acknowledgements

Starship Foundation and the Paediatric Society of New Zealand acknowledge the co-operation of The Children's Hospital at Westmead, Sydney Children's Hospital at Randwick, and Kaleidoscope - Hunter Children's Health Network in making this fact sheet available to patients and families.
 

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This fact sheet was endorsed by PSNZ - 27/08/2009

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