How any child or young person grieves when someone they love has died will depend on many things. Bereaved children and teenagers will need ongoing attention, reassurance and support. For a parent, the death of a child is a deep grief experience that goes beyond words. The loss affects bereaved parents emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually and socially. This section provides information about grief, and the support available for you and your family, now and in the future.
When a whānau member has died, even very young children (under 2 years) will need an explanation of what they are seeing around them, to help them start to understand what has happened. Talking to children helps them to trust you and helps them to make sense of what is happening in their world.
Bereaved children and young people may experience a wide range of ongoing grief reactions, as adults do, but their age and stage, personality and family situation will affect their experience and expression of it.
Facing the death of your own child is one of the toughest life experiences. It may have been expected after illness, or unexpected and sudden. After the death of a child or young person, a number of different people are likely to become involved. Who is involved will depend on how your child died.